i’m polish and all my family has blonde hair, and blue eyes and i’m the only one with black hair and dark eyes, so when i was 4 years old my aunt always complimented my cousin patrick’s and his two brothers light blue eyes telling them they were as beautiful and bright as the sky all the time and i got fed up one day and pushed him out of the way and told my aunt my eyes are much more beautiful because they’re like a starry black sky and that shut her up and my mom lost her shit and never fails to remind everyone how a little kid made her least favorite sister get massacred at a family function
you should have told her they’re as black and beautiful as the oxidized blood drying up on their rotting carcass if they don’t shut the hell up
i was four
all the better.
Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.
Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.
Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.
Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.
Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.
Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,
Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.
Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.
Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.
Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.
Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.
Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.
Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.
Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.
Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.
I wish I could just run my fingers through my hair and it instantly turned fabulous
NO BECAUSE THIS IS GENUINELY HOW HE DOES HIS HAIR HE DOESN’T BRUSH IT HE JUST RUNS HIS FINGERS THROUGH IT GOD JARED
DAMMIT I JUST SPIT MY COFFEE EVERYWHERE
GLORIOUS LOCKS OF SPUN GOLD
My dad would tell me that when we were little and people would say to him “wow, four daughters, that’s a lot of weddings to pay for” (because traditionally the bride’s family would pay for the wedding), my dad would respond with “well, we’re hoping at least one of them will be gay so we can split the cost with the other bride’s family”
He said people never knew how to respond
richard speight jr:
It’s so accurate and I’ve beEN LAUGHING AT THIS FAR TOO LONG
nothing but black smoke
For a long time after he leaves the bunker, Dean doesn’t think. Couldn’t, even if he tried. He follows instructions, moves on auto pilot, and isn’t even sure of who the voice barking orders belongs to.
He sees the world through the inside of his own eyelids, tinged with red, a film of flesh and blood that separates him from reality. It’s nearly a month before it peels back, as if being torn away with fingernails, and he blinks against the natural view of the world to find himself alive, or something close to it.
He also finds Crowley, waiting. Watching him. A smirking face in the center of his vision, standing with a hand rested casually on the flank of a hellhound whose shoulders reach his own.
Dean can see it, it’s raised hackles, it’s gaping maw, can feel the churning filth of Hell bubbling in his veins, and innately he knows exactly what he is. He looks at the hellhound and he can see beyond what’s there. He can see where it’s been. What it’s been eating.
Not too long ago, the smell of congealed blood, the sight of gristle hanging from the hellhound’s jaw would have had him fighting back memories of Indiana; of the cold, sick feeling of his organs spilling out between his fingers. Now he looks and sees and doesn’t care. Is unmoved by the memory of twitching, slurping, thrashing red that rolls off the hound’s matted fur like vapor. Unshaken by the slick-drip splatter that glints from it’s paws, tinged sickly yellow in the evening lamplight.
“Wondered when you’d check back in,” Crowley says, removing his hand from the hound’s flank and shoving it into the pocket of his overcoat before he turns and walks toward a nearby building. He glances back over his shoulder and whistles. The hound follows him.
So does Dean.
Cas needs to get his own room at the Bunker. He’s part of the family. He deserves to have a room at their home.
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i'm either gone in an instant
or here til the bitter end, i never know (x)
Wow it really amazes me that I’ve only seen the finale once and after months of trying to tear it from my memory I still know exactly what happened and can precisely remember the scenes that casually ruined the show for me.
Congratufuckinglations to Carter and Craig for creating something I’ll still probably be pissed about on my death bed.
Just because someone stumbles
and lost their way
it doesn’t mean they’re lost forever
So I’m watching Raising Asia (shut up), and WHERE DO I BEGIN! So much to discuss. There is just so much to discuss here. So much more than the lion taming routine. And her father, oh boy, I have so many thoughts on him. I can’t really articulate my thoughts well right now (then again, when can I ever), so I’m going to attempt to go to bed soon.
I bet you this will be a hit just because of the amount of discussion it causes. The lion taming routine isn’t even in my top 10 things I want to talk about and have opinions on. Also, one last thing, how the fuck the mother and father managed to stay married this long is beyond me. I bet they will be separated or in counseling in less than 1 year, and if they decide to, divorced in 2-2.5 years.
"I hate having to micromanage like this…" x